Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Betty Slack with the following comment:
Hi , I am interested in seeing if this person connects to my needhams and slack families in australia .I love doing my tree and would really appreciate any pics or info that you may wish to supply.If you are connected and need any info I have (which may be little in comparison) I would be most happy to help out , if I can .How wonderful that you have this service and I certianly would appreciate a copy of the pic if you have the time .A lady that did a lookup for me in england (out of the goodness of her heart) said the same thing you did about people not even acknowledging and its sad people dont appreciate the time you all take to help out others .good on you for pointing it out to these people many thanks in advance kindest regards glenda